Dont just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced , successful  life .I used the balanced before successful . Balanced means ensuring your health, relationship, mental peace are all in good order. there is no point of getting a promotion on the day of our breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if our back hurts. shoping is not enjoyable if our mind is full of tensions `` Life is one of those races in nursery school where we have to run with a marble  in a spoon kept in our mouth. If the marble falls. there is no point .